You never know when you're looking for answers will come to your door. Even if what you are afraid of happening, there are circumstances and factors that you can not predict which can be used to your advantage. These factors can change everything. Remember, we can be 99 percent correct in predicting the future, but just one percent to make a world of difference.
Challenge your negative thinking with positive statements and realistic thinking. If you have any thoughts that make your fearful or depressed, challenge those thoughts by asking yourself questions that will maintain objectivity and common sense. For example, I'm afraid that if you do not get that promotion, you'll be stuck in a job forever. This depresses you, but your thinking in this situation is unrealistic. The fact is that there are all kinds of jobs, and just because you do not get this promotion does not mean that you will never get. In addition, people change jobs all the time, and you always have the option to go elsewhere if you are not satisfied with their current position.
Some people get depressed and problems getting out of bed in the morning. When this happens, a person should take a deep breath and try to find something to do to get their attention on this issue. A person can take a walk, listen to music, read the newspaper or do an activity that will give them a new perspective on things. Doing something will get your attention away from the problem and give you confidence to do other things.
Enlist the help of God. You can hear it before, but have you tried to ask for help from God? Pray and talk to God about your problem can be effective. While the answers can not come to you right away, you can not go wrong to rely on God. You never know how God is working in your life. All you can do is do your best each day, hope for the best, and take it in stride, with God's help. May God help us in our problems if we ask him.
As a layman, and author of the alarm, I did a lot of interviews with various counselors in how to manage the fear, anxiety and depression. The methods I described some basic ways to manage depression, but it's best to get professional help and hope not to lose. Finally, you will find the answers you are looking for.
