If you want to become a good MMA fighter then you need to train with focus. You can't be the best at ground, punch, and kick. You need to choose one or two skills that you will become special at and focus on these then have the other skills as the extra things you can do.
I have many MMA students that want to study with me, they say they know Juijutsu, Thai Boxing, Boxing etc but when I see them train, I ask them, “Which is your weapon? Your kick or your punch?” Most people don't have a lethal weapon. They are not 100% in control of their punch or their kick. They have no weapon that can enable them to win. This means they have nothing special.
I tell them, this means that every time you go to fight, you are hoping for luck. You don't know which skill will help you to win the fight: kick or punch or ground fighting. When you become a fighter, you can’t live for luck, you need to have full confidence, believe in your punch or your kick or your knee or elbow. Know that when you have the opportunity, you can knock your opponent out.
Because you know you can do this, then you make a strategy to trap them, you are setting them up so you can have the opportunity to knock them out. It's only when you are at this level that you are a good fighter.
This is the reason why you need to be humble. If you have too much desire to have everything, you can't have everything. You can only have one or two skills. This is enough for you to win. Simplify your training and strengthen your skill.
But it's not easy. Because when you have a skill, you have to use your brain, you need to fight different kind of fighters so you need to be able use your weapon from different angles, you need to practice over and over again to make your weapon sharper and sharper. This humbles you. It’s boring. There’s nothing exciting. Where as when you learn different martial arts and different techniques, you feel excited and stimulated but the truth is, you can’t master them. You will always be an average fighter. This week I want you to find your special skill and train in it intensively until it becomes your special weapon
Related DVDs:
Fighting Punches and Kicks Volume 1 & 2
Shaolin Bootcamp Volume 1 & 2
Shaolin Workout Volume 1, 2, 3
Kung Fu Ch'an
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Wednesday, 19 October 2011
Monday, 10 October 2011
Why I Do It ~ A Client Success Story
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I am over-the-top excited about this Blog!!! I wake up every day with excitement to help people adapt healthy lifestyles and when my clients have been walking the talk of Stay Healthy Fitness, it definitely shows. I schedule new client assessments 12 weeks out from initial intake giving their bodies a chance to change and to see the results of their dedication. I get just as excited about assessment day as they do and it is a proud trainer moment....this is my reward…watching their faces light up, listening to all the great ways they have changed, how much they are enjoying the foods, feeling good, having more energy, less pain, and overall confidence…the comments are endless…and the celebration for that moment…PRICELESS!!! Living a Stay Healthy life means having a quality life inside and out, and I am so happy to be able to walk beside so many fabulous people to educate, coach, and celebrate every moment of progress that brings them closer to their goals. When a client comes to me for the first time and shares that they want to look better, feel better, have more energy…and the list goes on and on…we begin our journey as a trainer/client team and together we work to obtain those goals. It takes discipline each day and a progressive approach celebrating every small victory with each step closer to the goal. The beautiful part about starting to live a Stay Healthy life are the benefits that go unseen but are exciting for me to share with them as a trainer…decreased cholesterol and blood pressure readings, decreased resting heart and recovery heart rates, decreased BMI, decreased body fat measurement…and my physiological list can go on and on. The more obvious benefits of creating a “New You” and shout YEAH…LOOK I AM DOING IT…are reduced weight, decreased body fat, inches lost, strength and stamina gained, increased range of motion…all that defines the outward appearance of what healthy feels like and what friends and family notice. The combination is absolutely my wish for everyone and my passion to reach out and help as many people as I can to live a Stay Healthy Life…this is Why I Do It…It is people like Cindy that make it easy for me to say to myself…YES, Darla, continue to do this! So, let me introduce my wonderful client Cindy to you…I am so excited about her accomplishments and I will not give it all away here, but I will let you read her story, feelings, and WOW moment of her assessment results and so much more. Cindy is 59 years young and our Stay Healthy Fitness journey together began in May 2011:
Stay Healthy Fitness Success Story
Cindy, age 59
CINDY NOW!!!!
Darla has provided me with the tools to change my life. Prior to contacting Darla, I was exhausted all the time and I felt like I didn’t have the time to workout or prepare special meals. Shopping for clothes was depressing and I needed resuscitation after getting on the scales. The big 6-0 was approaching and I didn’t want to spend the future in a recliner. So, I messaged Darla for help explaining to her that I also had a health condition requiring me to take weight gaining medications. Darla was encouraging and supportive...exactly what I needed to make my 12-week transformation, a loss of 23 inches and 19 pounds. No unhealthy weight loss tricks, just clean, simple meals and workable exercise routines. Darla is extremely knowledgeable and continually concerned about preventing injuries and often providing me modifications to avoid inflaming painful joints. She was also helpful in unlocking a health mystery for me. For years, I had agonizing hip pain often waking me up at night and periodically causing me to limp. X-rays only revealed mild osteoarthritis. Gleaning information from our initial assessment, Darla suspected I also had trochanteric bursitis and had me begin a series stretches and exercises. The results have been amazing. I truly thought I would have to live with that pain forever. After our first meeting, I knew Darla’s enthusiasm for life and fitness would be infectious. She’s a wonderful and caring person and shares in your success for fitness. Her gym is well equipped and immaculate. Working with Darla has been the best investment in my life and I look forward to continuing my goals. Thank you, Darla.
Cindy, age 59
Roseville
BEFORE 12 WEEKS AFTER
5-23-11, 179 lbs 9-14-11, 160lbs
BMI 26.2, BF 32.1% BMI: 23.5, BF: 26.7%
I began working with Cindy in May 2011 and what a wonderful first meeting. Cindy was ready for a change and her enthusiasm was apparent. We began our journey as a trainer client team to improve Cindy’s quality of life while reaching her goals. I provided the exercise & nutritional guidance and Cindy lived this philosophy not only while working with me, but outside of the training studio…this is what it takes to achieve results. Cindy, I celebrate your accomplishments…you are truly an inspiration and motivation to those around you. I look forward to our continued time together as we progress toward your overall fitness and life goals.
Big Stay Healthy Hugs and Trainer Pride, from your trainer and coach, Darla;)
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The Shaolin Way To Train Mixed Martial Arts - Part One
This is the first blog post in a series of three about how to train in Mixed Martial Arts. Each week I'll give you one training method to do and by the end of the three weeks, you'll have three new skills which will help you in your training. Remember to send me a message and let me know how you're getting on.
How To Replicate Your Fight In Your Training
Recently I've been asked to train MMA fighters. I know some martial artists are purest but I love not only martial arts but also the fighting arts. I like to watch MMA fights because there aren't many rules and the fighter need to be able to use many skills. But I think that MMA fighters stay on the ground too long. Everyone knows that in any fight competition, if you can knock someone out as quickly as possible then not only will you win but you will become a famous fighter.
If it was a street fight and you had someone on the ground for a few minutes then you would probably be killed by someone else who is standing. A few minutes is a few minutes too long. When we train in Shaolin, in some ways it's similar to MMA because we practice punch, kick, and take-down. The only difference is that in Shaolin we don't train in ground fighting because Chinese culture doesn't allow us to fight on the ground. We don't see it as equal if someone is on the ground and we are standing. It's not wrong to fight on the ground, it's just different culture.
At the Shaolin Temple, we train our arms in many different ways to make our punch and arm become our weapon. When you do MMA, you need to train your arm to punch and wrestle. Wrestling takes a lot of energy and makes your arm tired more quickly than a punch. This means in your training, you need to replicate the different ways that you use your muscles.
In my Shaolin Bootcamp Training DVDs, we use our body weight to train our arms. The training doesn't look difficult but when you train like this, is the toughest workout you can do because we are constantly using our muscles in different ways. It gives you the strength to shift from punching to wrestling and back again. This week, I want you to challenge your muscles in every way, this will help you keep your training alive so it's similar to a fight.
Next week: How To Find Your Special Skill And Turn It Into A Weapon
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Related DVDs
Shaolin Bootcamp 1 & 2
Fighting Punches and Kicks - volume 1
Fighting Punches and Kicks - take downs
Kung Fu Ch'an - fighting combinations, blocks and pad work.
Monday, 3 October 2011
Confessions of a Cherry Picker
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My Bulk Sweet Potatoes 61 cents/lb |
I admit it…I am absolutely a huge cherry picker, and I wanted to get this out to you quickly while the picking is still good…LOL. I will share exactly what I am talking about…the confessions of a cherry picker…that is ME. I have always been a money saver, combing the circulars for deals and clipping coupons. This, my friends is a “cherry picker”…searching the circulars for deals and picking them off. This has also become a fun game for me and I challenge myself each time to save more and more with each shopping adventure. The key is to stick to the deals and not get sucked into the full price items that are NOT Stay Healthy food items on my list. I plan my strategy as you will see in the fun video included with this Blog. I also plot my driving route to transition well from store to home…this also saves me on gas money…OH MY…that is another soap box issue…the price of gas right now is absolutely ridiculous. We all have to do what it takes to save here and there, so I will take the time to put the deals in order according to route. I also frequent the same stores and know my local groceries pretty well, so that I can get what I need and get out…another time saver. I am not one to stay in a store for hours…I mean really…NO NO NO…this is temptation to get sucked into things not on my list…I do not care if it is the deal of the century…it is still spending money I would not spend otherwise. I stick to the circular deals, stick to my list, buy healthy food items, use coupons on items that I buy…and that is how this cherry picker does it. I also buy in bulk which is another huge savings....I am not one who likes to run back and forth daily to the grocery….I mean really…and why??? The only items I will return to the store for are the produce items like fruits, veggies, and salads…but that may be a once a week quick pick and again using the circulars for deals. I will share that I shop at Costco for bulk items and you better believe I know if it is a deal or not.
I am a Cherry Picker |
My cherry picking route looked like this…Costco, Sprouts, Winco and Nugget stores. I try not to go over 3 stores per pick, but there was such a good deal at the Nugget on the whole free range chickens and Gala apples, it was a MUST stop. Being a cherry picker enables me to save lots of money, eat healthy, and maintain my physique with fabulous Stay Healthy food. I also have everything I need on hand in my refrigerator and pantry for every meal throughout the day…being a cherry picker means I have no excuses NOT to eat healthy. So, it is also a motivator and accountability tool for me. You may think I am over the top on this one, but it really takes minutes to look through the deals to save money…and believe me….it is worth every penny. That is what I am all about…being real on how I do things to eat healthy and labeling myself a “cherry picker”…well…there you have it. Stay Healthy!
Motivation of the Day: If You Change Nothing, Nothing Will Change
Neg Pull-Ups...Down Slow & Controlled |
My Work out of the Day:
30 Minute ARC trainer
Body Stuff repeated 4x
Neg pull-ups 7-10 reps
Hamstring Curls 25lbs 25 reps
Leg Extensions 25lbs 25 reps
Pull downs, 30lbs 25 reps
Low rows, 30lbs 25 reps
BOSU abs, 25 reps
Nutrition of the Day:
Coffee, one cup with f/f French vanilla creamer
1-Thin bun with PB2 (2tblsp mixed with water)
2-Post Workout Shake
3-Lentils and Grilled Chicken
4-Cauliflower Chicken
5-Spinach Salad with Grilled Salmon
Protein ball before bed
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Wednesday, 28 September 2011
I Keep It Simple and Slow
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Life is really too short not to…I do not entertain drama, negativity, or anything that screams…NOT HEALTHY. I enjoy the little things in life because they are truly the BIG things. I have learned that rushing through a day at the speed of light is not a good thing and literally landed me flat on my backside in 2008…and besides…you miss out on a lot of life. For quite some time now, I have made sure to slow things down, enjoy the moment and build fabulous memories. I have this saying…nothing good happens fast…LOL. I use this all the time when I am training clients…and I also put myself through slow methodical workouts where I concentrate on the muscle being worked, feel the muscle move through its motion, and really get the most out of the work. Nothing good happens fast when an exercise is done so fast that the movement is out of form, without thinking, compromising the body, and before you know it…injury…and YUCK…what the heck is that all about. Not for this girl and maintaining my 47 year young self…OK…yes I am talking about life and I am talking about my workouts…well, it goes hand in hand now doesn’t it? Getting back to simplicity…I have learned to be content in all circumstances…in my book, life is not about having a million dollars, or the nicest car or house, but happiness with myself and getting up every morning looking forward to what I will do with my day.
During Our Honeymoon Last Year |
I enjoy the simple pleasure of a cup of coffee in the morning with hubby, good conversation, time with family and friends…and I am talking quality time…giving my full attention to someone when they are sharing a story. I can remember when my kids were small and the rush rush get things done was on overdrive for this actively involved parent…they are sharing something exciting that happened on the playground for example, and I would be washing the dishes with one ear on them, the other in the sink…I would definitely change that…put down the dish and sit down to look intently in their eyes and allow myself to feel their excitement. You see, these are the important things that are learned in life…the lessons learned that I now apply and live by. You better believe my children get my full attention when they are visiting…no cleaning, no dishes, but quality time. I use this same philosophy with my clients, and especially during an initial consultation. I give all of me during a consultation, coaching, or training session…I am a deep person and need to feel what is being shared in that moment. It is in that moment, I can see clearly to help. OK…I am all over the board here…but I hope you understand what I am sharing…simplicity comes with slowing down, being a good listener, a good friend, wife, mother, daughter and taking in the moment. Slowing down also means taking care of my body using slow, methodical movements where my muscles get the most benefit for the time I give.
Exploring a Ghost Town |
I am a simple girl…I love the smell of the first rain on the pavement, hummingbirds flying around my orange tree in the morning, the sound of laughter around the dinner table, my cooking being enjoyed, and my list can go on and on. I sit here as a 47 year young woman who has lived a lot of life, experienced quite the journey and realizing that simple and slow may not be a million dollars…but is sure feels like a million dollars. So, next time you think about wanting things now, fast, rushed….think about so many things that would be missed along the way…because truly…nothing good ever happens fast. I will end with another favorite saying….Exercise is a journey NOT a destination….this applies to everything in my life. Stay Healthy!
I Slow Life Down and Enjoy the Moment |
Motivation of the Day: Nothing Good Ever Happens Fast
Me in my Studio |
Workout of the Day
45 minute exercise of my choice workout
I started out on my ARC trainer and felt burnt after 10 minutes, so with my minute interval timer clipped on my sports bra, I began doing whatever exercise that popped into my mind for that minute…it became a game…and before I knew it, 45 minutes…DONE. So, included in my fitness game were lunges, low rows, lunge backs, step ups, bicep curls, triceps kickbacks, squats, and pull downs just to name a few. I also used my tubing. YES…today was a tough motivation day and happy that I completed the game.
Meal 5 |
Nutrition of the day:
Coffee…so good this morning;)
1-Thin Bagel with 1 Tbsp peanut butter
2-Post work out shake
3-Spinach salad with grilled chicken
4-¼ cup Pumpkin Seeds and ½ cup Greek Yogurt
5-Egg white scramble with spinach & avocado
Personal Share: Happy 87th Birthday to My Fabulous Father!!!
Love You Dad ~ Your Baby Girl |
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